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The Relaxation Response
                begins with a slow — deep — breath . . .

| Stress Response | Fight or Flight Response | Relaxation Response |
| A Comparison Chart | Heart Rate | Blood Pressure | Metabolism |
| Muscular Tension | Rate of Breathing | Description of Chart |

 When was the LAST TIME you let yourself RELAX?

The Stress Response is often referred to as the "Fight or Flight Response," and is responsible for energizing the body to survive in times of severe physical need such as life and death situations. However, in our modern society most of us are experiencing 50 or more stress responses per day for things that are not even remotely life threatening—while living in bodies that are designed to handle 3 or 4 such experiences per week. With no built-in or automatic physical outlet for the stress response in our lives, this potentially life saving response itself becomes threatening to our lives. This is why we need to learn the Relaxation Response.

The Relaxation Response is just the opposite of the Stress Response and tends to reverse the negative impact of stress in our minds and bodies. And here is something to consider: Stress is not optional—it will come to us every day—stress is a condition of the living. But stress management is optional—it must be chosen by each individual or it cannot happen. Learning to reverse the negative impact of stress on our minds, bodies, immune system functioning, emotions, diseases, is more under our control than has previously been thought. Learning to elicit the Relaxation Response is one of the key components in reversing the negative impact of stress.

Stress flows into our lives automatically.
"Stress flows into our lives automatically.
Stress Management
is optional and
only happens if you choose . . .
"

Dr. Gary L. Flegal

 

Here is a comparison to show the differences of how your body responds under the Stress Response (Fight or Flight) and during the Relaxation Response.

Stress Response Physiological Response Relaxation Response
Stress
Heart Rate Increases
Heart Rate Increases with Stress
Heart Rate
Steady and Slow wins the race.
Heart Rate Decreases with Relaxation
Relaxation
Heart Rate Decreases
Stress
Blood Pressure Increases

Stress can cause Hypertension, or High Blood Pressure.
Blood Pressure
Got Stress?
Relaxation can help control Blood Pressure.
Relaxation
Blood Pressure Decreases
Stress
Metabolism Increases

Your body works harder under stress and strain.
Metabolism
One way to measure metabolism is by increases or decreases in body temperature.
Your body gets an opportunity to rest or recover during relaxation.
Relaxation
Metabolism Decreases
Stress
Tension Increases
Tension Increases
Muscles become tighter during the Fight or Flight (stress) Response. This is to prepare your body to respond with action.
Muscular Tension
Tense Muscles get tighter and tighter . . .
Muscles become more relaxed (less tense) during relaxation.
Relaxation
Tension Decreases
Stress
Breathing Speeds Up

With Stress, breathing becomes quick and shallow.
Breathing Rate

The rate and depth of the breath can influence your level of stress.
With slow, deep breathing, Relaxation is possible.
Relaxation
Breathing Slows Down
This chart demonstrates how stress increases the body's physiological reactions, while true relaxation actually slows the body's physiology. Out of all these physical changes, notice that breathing is the one physical response that is most easily brought under your conscious control. Take a moment to realize what a blessing this is and how fortunate that you can choose to control and slow your breathing. This will cause a cascade effect that will slow all of the other areas under stress in your body as well (a gift from the Good Designer).

 When was the LAST TIME you let yourself RELAX?
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